For many entrepreneurs and people who are committed to creating and living lives they love, ‘success’ is an illusive destination and the reason is because they try to get the results that they believe will give them the feeling of success. The truth is there is nothing to ‘get’. We don’t have control over anything. However much you think you've got control over your situations or circumstances is a complete illusion. Take it from me. The only two things that you can rely on in your life are change and death.
However, there is just one thing that you, me and every other single human being do have control over (it’s what makes us human) and this is how we are ‘being’. The inspirational part of this is that it’s how we are being that is the key to not so much as ‘getting’ but ‘creating’ what we want in our life.
This is because it is how you choose to ‘be’ which will determine whether you take those actions that make all the difference, or not.
If I'm being ‘I can’t do it’ or ‘I'm not good enough’ or ‘nobody wants me’ or ‘I’m bored and fed up’, the actions I'm going to take are simply not going to be the effective kind of actions that’ll create the results that truly inspire me, or be consistent enough for me to really create any kind of fulfilling outcomes.
Whereas if you choose to be ‘alive’ or ‘unstoppable’ or ‘free’, the actions you’ll take will then have a lot more effectiveness and will likely create much more fulfilling outcomes. You can be whatever you want to be, and it’s all about being it in an empowering way especially if it’s fulfilling results you’re after.
If I want to live my life as a‘transformational coach’ I need to go out there and ‘be’ it and be it with absolute commitment. Being so is going to enable me to take effective actions that are aligned with that which I want to create in the world. I'm going to go out and meet people. I'm going to tell people what I'm committed to doing for them. I'm going to make phone calls. And as I do so, I'm going to be being a reflection of that which I want to create in the world. I'm going to be being inspiring to others and they are going to want to work with me because they're getting my enthusiasm, they are getting how much I want to achieve and create and how much I want other people to share the same.
So the secret to ‘getting’ what you want in your life is to give up ‘getting’ and instead take responsibility for how you are being in the world, and, I promise you, if you take this on, if you take on a new and empowered way of being and do everything from there, that you will naturally feel better and you'll even begin to feel good. Your actions will then be effective, you'll be able to really take charge of creating your future and you’ll see great results beginning to happen much quicker than you expected.
If this inspired you then why not apply to one of my complimentary transformational coaching sessions? (Places are limited and at some point I'll be booked up). For more details see the contact page on my website.